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昆山菜鳥Q&A:先生去大陸,我要先在昆山找到工作!要不然先生不給跟!

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發表於 2011-9-4 21:42 | 顯示全部樓層
你打中文吧。洪淑玲姐姐
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發表於 2011-9-4 22:41 | 顯示全部樓層
let me tell u about my situation....
my husband came here in 2006...during the year I had to take care of two kids and worked all by myself.  That was quite tiring (both body and mind). A year later I came w/ kids first for a two-month trail period. I saw how hard my husband was. He is a sales and always has many social intercourses w/ customers even now. He has long working period (daytime work + nighttime social activities). At that moment, his telephone had to  be 24hrs standyby since foreign customers might call him anytime (even at 3:00AM at night).  He told me that if we were not there, he really did not want to go back an empty house which would deepen his loneliness. I felt how lonely he was and made up my mind to quite my job and moved over. During that year actually if he got "小三" , I thought that was forgiveable (luckily he did not)....

I just try to tell you if possible do not let ur family apart. "小三" is not the main issue, the man needs ur support and accompany here in China. However u have ur difficulty now w/ ur daddy. He is in such urgent moment and he nees u too. Based on my personal opinion, spend some time w/ ur daddy first. After he is getting better later then u may think about move over to be w/ ur husband. Trust ur husband's continence, forget the "小三" problem. Besides do not let the nonsesnse and un-happend things frighten u in advance. Actually we all do not know what may happen in the future. Just do what we think is right and suppose to do.

Regarding the job, medical job is not the only choice. Your English is excellent. Why not consider to find a teaching job here? There is a big market. We may talk about it after u move over.

Hope I can give u a little help. Add oil...add oil..... believe u can make the best decision.
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 樓主| 發表於 2011-9-4 22:42 | 顯示全部樓層
agnes881 發表於 2011-9-4 21:42
你打中文吧。洪淑玲姐姐

姐姐?!我兒子說我是大嬸...阿玲中打慢,要請學生打,打英文不管文法,所以心領神會即可!
我爹這兩天生病,BPH 啦 !整個周末重要學校計畫都泡湯,導尿對男生而言是痛苦的,吵了三天 ,我只好去買跟針筒將管子拔掉,自解了。爸爸老了...
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 樓主| 發表於 2011-9-5 00:00 | 顯示全部樓層
yuri 發表於 2011-9-4 22:41
let me tell u about my situation....
my husband came here in 2006...during the year I had to take c ...

Thank you for your support, I can imagination how warm your personality are. You can be my consultant.:)    I am not sure if I can teach English or not, I pretty sure that my daughter can teach English over there, since she studied in the US for long time. I am a outgoing person, I would like to become a sales representive. but I am old and not pretty girl... so better not dreaming about the position.
      My daughter and son grow up in the US. It might be a good idea to send my daughter go over there and teach 台商之子 English... HAHA. 她念文藻 外語教學 很優 下個月答應老師要去錄影 應去大陸發現 She is ABC and She speaks 台灣國語...
      I know how lonely it was if a person stay away from family and easily to get home sick. I study oversea and my husband already back to Taiwan at that time. I cry ....cry....cry....every day and phone my family 3 times a day. Even though I back to Taiwan every 4-8 months for 2-3weeks break. but I still cry in the airport when I need to back to the US.. 桃園機場都因此而淹水了 土石流大概是我害的 my husband say so.
      my daddy's progress is fast than waht I thought, I JUST remove his foley's cath for 6 hours. and his consicous turns to clear now and ask me for cigarette... OMG.
      Thank you for your support, I hope I can have chance to meet you while you back to Taiwan or when I visit to Kunsan.

SLH
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yuri 發表於 2011-9-4 22:41
let me tell u about my situation....
my husband came here in 2006...during the year I had to take c ...

寫的太好了~
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發表於 2011-9-5 10:03 | 顯示全部樓層
阿玲姐姐,工作有進展了嗎?有試過昆山或蘇州當地的人才網嗎?加油喔~KiKi
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Dear 志豪’S Buddy:

近日大樓電梯故障, 因為我年紀大了又沒吃維骨力, 實在沒法走20幾層樓, 匆匆忙忙回到台灣, 現在才打開電腦, 抱歉晚回. 從踏上大陸的土地至今, 已匆匆十多年, 您所說的事情我大概都見過, 但是憑良心說:

第一 我雖然不認識志豪, 但是我知道愈是老實負責任的人愈撇不下小三.
第二 就這十多年我的親眼見聞, 小三的事層出不窮. 大陸經濟發展飛快, 很多大陸人確實非常有錢, 但是還是有很多人是從赤貧的鄉下來到大城市打工的, 台灣人依然是這群人眼中的香餑餑.
第三 我就是您所說的半個大陸人
第四 唉! 一件事可以有很多種解讀, 您要說監視那我也沒辦法. 雖說飯店式宿舍有人照顧三餐跟打掃, 但是老婆的功能應該不僅僅於此吧!! 更何況飯店式宿舍真的有那麼好嗎?? 貴公司的文化我並不清楚. 但我知道某家台資廠也有飯店式宿舍, 但是所有的設施沒人敢用, 放假不是鎖在房間裡就是整日外出, 不敢在宿舍裡走動, 為何???
第五 關夫人也也很多事情可以做ㄚ. 生活是靠自己安排的.

小三不一定要去找, 有的是自己會來的. 最厲害的小三不是酒店小姐, 而是同公司的女同事.

我現在在台灣, 隨時可以細談.


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發表於 2011-9-5 21:10 | 顯示全部樓層
一粒沙:謝謝支持啦!搬到新城市順利喔....^^....

淑玲: if u still worry...give u a suggestion...let ur daughter comes and looks after ur husband for u ...she can make money as an English teacher meanwhile has an eye of her daddy....hahahaha...just kidding. There are a lot of nice people here and I think everyone is willing to help.Take care.
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 樓主| 發表於 2011-9-6 22:17 | 顯示全部樓層
kikikao 發表於 2011-9-5 10:03
阿玲姐姐,工作有進展了嗎?有試過昆山或蘇州當地的人才網嗎?加油喔~KiKi

My daddy is sick right now and I am helping his daily life.
I probably need to wait until we find a good nursing home or elderly village
Thanks.

SLH
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 樓主| 發表於 2011-9-6 22:24 | 顯示全部樓層
JenniferWu 發表於 2011-9-5 15:31
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I think you have a good point.  My daddy is sick right now, but I will find a chance to call you. how long you plan to stay in Taiwan?  Maybe we should meet each other.
SLH
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