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昆山菜鳥Q&A:先生去大陸,我要先在昆山找到工作!要不然先生不給跟!

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 樓主| 發表於 2011-8-29 20:16 | 顯示全部樓層
I see, I will bring laptop instead of desk top...THx
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發表於 2011-8-30 13:22 | 顯示全部樓層
加油一定要來喔
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發表於 2011-9-1 13:39 | 顯示全部樓層
I think ur husband needs ur accompany not ur job.
He seems to be a quite responsible person since he afforded all ur tuition expenses in US.
Therefore "小三" I don't think will be the issue in ur family.
Just follow ur mind and come w/ him.

As lone as u get to know some friends here, ur life will be full of fun everyday.
We have so many things to do here, such as Knitting party/ oil painting class/cooking class/dance class....etc..
U have a lot of chances to create ur hobbies...
besides we join the school story telling mom group (故事媽媽) which spend our spare time to tell stories at different schools.
It is really meaningful avtivitiy and we all enjoy it so much.

Hope u come and join us here....


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 樓主| 發表於 2011-9-2 06:58 | 顯示全部樓層
yuri 發表於 2011-9-1 13:39
I think ur husband needs ur accompany not ur job.
He seems to be a quite responsible person since h ...

let me talk to you when I am back from clinical practicum.
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發表於 2011-9-2 09:25 | 顯示全部樓層
看到標題有點驚訝!真的是各色老公都有啊!妳都能唸到博士了!妳老公的各方面應都不錯,怎還會如此要求呢?真搞不懂!要是我一定對他.

補充内容 (2011-9-2 09:30):
既來之則安之 .如果要算計那麼多錢的問題.那我建議你還是不要過來了.
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洪淑玲 發表於 2011-9-2 06:58
let me talk to you when I am back from clinical practicum.
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sure...hope to hear from u soon
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 樓主| 發表於 2011-9-4 19:05 | 顯示全部樓層
       I was busy this weekend because of clincial practicum and also.... My daddy was sent to Emergency room because of hypoglycemia and hypotension, he suffered from hypertension for several years. I think my daddy probably too anxious about removing of suture line. Thereforce, he was sent to ER right after remove suture line.
Well, I don't know how to do? I love my daddy and i don't think I can go to Mainland China and leave my daddy alone. I love my husband too... and.... by the way I have my contract in Taiwan...I don't know Maybe I should pray God.
      My husband is a very nice person and has a good temp. Our kids all growth up... however, since I study my PhD and he studied his graduate school for a long period of time, we spend all of our money. and now we have realized that we should save some money to send our kids go aboard to study their profession. If I stay home... I mean physically stay in China seems unfair to him since he scrify too much for a long period of time. I don't know how I deal with my situation at this moment. I did send my huband's buddy an email regarding if I should allow my husband long stay in China ALONE. He give the the response like this....Let me cut and paste for you later...I use my cellular share wi-fi online. My daddy'd home did not have internet connection, I use unlimited online by phone. I can only open one website a time. talk to you later..
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 樓主| 發表於 2011-9-4 19:28 | 顯示全部樓層
yuri 發表於 2011-9-1 13:39
I think ur husband needs ur accompany not ur job.
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the life you describe just very familiar to me. I had the same life  expereince in the US while my kids were young.

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 樓主| 發表於 2011-9-4 19:32 | 顯示全部樓層
Here is what my husband's buddy told me. I did post it on my facebook. My girl friends were very angry about what he saying we were "三姑六婆"....

近日案子不斷,稍減業績壓力,故昨天沒進辦公室,今早才收信。抱歉晚回。從去年踏上大陸,轉舜近一年半。以下說的事情倒沒在我身上發生,並非我是柳下惠或聖人。但是憑良心說:
第一 就人品來說,我相信志豪的為人及自律。
第二 就這一年我的親見親聞。小三的故事,大半在台灣的人都是道聽途說的,或是以往的故事還停留在記憶裡捨不得放棄。這幾年大陸的經濟發展及建社,還有二三線城市的進布繁榮,非在台灣看電視的人可以想像。有些人到大陸旅遊,僅是走馬看花,蜻蜓點水,沒有深入尋常百姓家看個究竟。現在的高檔餐廳、k房等消費場所,90%的消費人口都是本地人。街上跑過去的雙 B 多如過江之鯽。有些地方台灣人已經不吃香,唯一他們感興趣的只勝下好奇及統一意識了。
第三 就我們公司來說。大概百分15%是全家一起來。這些人有二個特色,一種是太太沒工作,小孩一起來的,就照 顧 先生與小孩。第二種是半個大陸人了,就是說太太沒工作,小孩已經在大陸就學,甚至買車買房了。
第四 如果說要照 顧 先生,倒不如是監視吧。像樣的公司都有台幹宿舍。食:全年供應三餐。衣:有阿姨每天洗燙衣服。住:單人房比照飯店。行:每週可以派車旅遊(我們公司每週出二部車,但要湊滿四人)。育樂就不必說了,都有間娛樂樓,撞球桌球健身房及k房。有些台幹省的很,一個月不出門,都不用花到一毛錢的。
第五 去年剛來時,聽到裡頭大嫂說:我們 都是關 夫人。每天被關在公司宿舍。這裡太大了,坐公車不像台北那麼方便,想開車還要重新考駕照(筆試),像我們公司規定儘量不要自己開車,出了事麻煩也沒人幫我們。如果妳要來,要有心裡準備。
大陸並不是火坑,電子科技業這一行勞累用心責任重,每天工作12小時是正常,大半的人只有週六晚才能輕鬆一下。除非幹業務的(公司最年輕及最有活力的部門),每天要招呼客戶吃飯應酬,才有可能去些聲色場所。一般在裡頭做研發製造的,看起來勞心勞力,每個人都比實際上老5-10歲。若還有精力去找小三,我也佩服啦!
建議:志豪過來時,妳可以請個假來看看,看看大陸的實際情況。先不要冒然辭職。很多事情不是三姑六婆說了算的!
通常大公司都有固定的假期及機票,我們是每年六張來回機票及卅六假。我下次返台,屆時再細談。
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